The Word that you need to digest

I have been looking for the right articles to write and to share to you these past few days to help you with your life somehow. We all have struggles and problem that we need to face alone in our life that sometimes we tend to feel devastated whenever those decisions that we had never actually solve the problem and worst it add up to the problem. I am no expert in solving problems because sometimes I do create them and put myself in a place where I appear to be hard headed girl and pathetic because my decisions are no good.

I just want to share that in life when you had a bad decisions that it seems like it made everything worst it does not mean that you are a bad person. Mistakes are lesson and it will lead you to the person that you supposed to be. We just do not see it right now because that is how it works. You have to experience first the effect of the decisions that you made so that you will know the gravity of that wrong decisions which afterwards will lead you to the clearer path. The only thing that we must possess whenever we are in bad times is to be Patient.

Well personally every time I say or heard the word patient, my chest becomes heavy and I started to breathe deeply. Just because I am impatient and I bet there are people out there who are impatient too. Well being patient is actually a learning process and it is very looooooong process before you will achieve that. I actually want to be patient because as they say when a person is patient, great gifts will be given to him at the end. So I searched and looked for the definition of the word patient before doing the process. And I found out that the word patient literally means waiting with a positive attitude.

I want to scream because the word waiting is very frustrating already. I mean how can a person wait for a period of time into something that he does not know if that thing or person that he is waiting will arrive??? and with positive attitude??? like come on!!! (this is my initial reaction which literally impatient)

But then when I think of my past I realized that I should have wait for the right time to fall in love, I should have wait longer before deciding, I should have listen to what my mind says before letting my emotions dominate my body. I should have exercise to be patient so that everything will fall on its place.. I know that it is too late to fix the damage that I have done but it will never be too late to be patient.

Waiting while smiling is very hard at the beginning but I learn a effective trick to be patient and that is diverting your attention to something and make your time more productive while waiting then whatever or whoever you are waiting it will come to you with a surprise. Then all the waiting time is actually worth it..

If you had mistakes in the past just let it go and start another chapter of your life with some great attitude like being patient..Have a nice day everyone....